tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5689809754515583613.post824436465930600366..comments2023-07-27T06:10:33.134-04:00Comments on At The Park: Thursday at the parkCarolinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04852806284890845389noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5689809754515583613.post-52942557515374692662009-05-28T20:20:19.601-04:002009-05-28T20:20:19.601-04:00We all have situations that are challenging. Some ...We all have situations that are challenging. Some more challenging then others. While we are living through them they seem monumental. The great part of all situations is they get better. There is nothing we can do about it, they just will get better. Our heart can be broken, our emotions crushed and our minds frazzled. The good part is our heart emotions and mind WILL heal.<br />We can't do anything about that either, they just will be healed.<br /><br />MY situation will happen on Sat May 30th. Now all you four ladies must encourage me not discourage. My favorite thing to do in the spring is to go sailing. I WILL be going sailing this saturday. It will be difficult and may hurt a little but I will persevre. Wish me luck at finding a bargian of two. Here I come Yard Sale Season.Mommienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5689809754515583613.post-86745663539915494402009-05-28T19:49:37.546-04:002009-05-28T19:49:37.546-04:00After my second marriage ended I did not expect an...After my second marriage ended I did not expect anyone to choose sides. However one of my sisters chose my ex's side. She did not talk to me for several years and only invited my ex to family events at her home and not me. This not only hurt me but it hurt our son who was only a little boy then, bacause if I was not invited he could not go. He missed out on visiting his cousins at these events.<br />The worst thing that friends or family can do is choose side. The worst thing you can do is talk bad about your ex in earshot of the kids. But you probably know this.Mommienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5689809754515583613.post-86199544887382431952009-05-28T14:09:08.215-04:002009-05-28T14:09:08.215-04:00Well I am home now after some errands and had my l...Well I am home now after some errands and had my lunch. Today while 'on the bench' it was a little tense. I was not in the room when the subject first came up but what I did see was Louise upset and crying, and Sunshine was just like our weather right now gray and gloomy, made for a tense morning. <br /><br />And here is my two cents for what it is worth on the subject:<br /><br />·Every one of us is entitled to our opinion and we all have to respect that even when we don’t like it. <br />·That for Cathy, Sunshine and myself we are not in Louise’s shoes and though we have crap in our lives we are not also dealing with the end of a marriage. So we need to be patient.<br />·Louise we love you and your husband and though we are not happy with the choices that have been made we are not going to ever pick sides. We don’t know what the future will bring for you or him and your three children need to know that we would never do or say anything that is disrespectful about their father.<br />·If we choice to talk to him in any format that is our choice and we are not being disloyal to you. <br /><br />I wish I could wave a magic wand and make everything better for all of us. But life doesn’t work that way. But we need to know that regardless of everything, we are here to support each other and we can trust each other. And as they say we have to stay friends forever or I would have to kill you all cause you know just way too much!Carolinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04852806284890845389noreply@blogger.com