tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5689809754515583613.post7841158249349023814..comments2023-07-27T06:10:33.134-04:00Comments on At The Park: Something light for a change.....Carolinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04852806284890845389noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5689809754515583613.post-51385137897645317912009-06-11T14:06:46.794-04:002009-06-11T14:06:46.794-04:00Being alone can sometimes be hard because you can ...Being alone can sometimes be hard because you can only rely on yourself to pick yourself up and do something rather than just do nothing. I do agree with what Mommie said that feeling at home with just yourself is a sort of a gift to you. You are and can be very good company for yourself. I think its being relaxed enough to appreciate it and not let it freak you out so much. I know that when my sister lost her husband she was so afraid of being alone and now many years later she loves her alone time. She finds it very peaceful and even looks forward to it. I think that it relaxes her and rejuvenates her. For me, I have had much alone time since the girls are in school full time. It was hard at the beginning and I had to find myself again but now I really do like it.Sunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05279162483353849243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5689809754515583613.post-87293212951855402472009-06-10T23:27:37.797-04:002009-06-10T23:27:37.797-04:00Yes louise we can adapt to all most anything. The ...Yes louise we can adapt to all most anything. The hardest thing for most people is change. Change of any kind.<br />You feel alone but really you are not you have the kids, your family and good friends. By the way congradulations to your daughter!<br />I raised 4 kids and was very involved in many things. Also I had 2 failed marriages. Change was always in the forfront of my life. Now I live alone in my own apartment. I do not feel alone. Over the years I developed a real good friend that I like spending a lot of time with. that friend is ME. I truly enjoy my own company. Start developing that friend in you.<br />I do keep active with painting lessons, my sunshine group, sewing, and socializing with family. I also go out to places like museums, art gallery, parks, historical sights and the island.<br />When you have time to think, think of what you really like to do and make plans to do it. Treat yourself well.Mommienoreply@blogger.com